no one comes to you without giving you a lesson.

Ever have that feeling like life’s just throwing random experiences your way? You meet someone interesting, have a crazy coincidence, or maybe even face-plant in public (hey, it happens!). But what if there’s more to it? What if, as the saying goes,

“No one comes to you without giving you a lesson”

Think about it. Every person you meet, every situation you encounter, has the potential to teach you something. Maybe your best friend is a master of organization, reminding you to finally tackle that overflowing closet. Perhaps a stranger’s kindness inspires you to pay it forward with a random act of generosity. Even those awkward moments can be valuable lessons — maybe you learn the importance of clear communication or the power of a good laugh at yourself.

Remember that scene in “The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy” where Arthur Dent needs the answer to the ultimate question of life, the universe, and everything? The answer, hilariously, turns out to be 42. But the point is, the meaning isn’t readily apparent. We have to search for it, to learn from our experiences and find the answers within ourselves.

Life isn’t a passive experience. It’s an ongoing conversation, a chance to connect, grow, and evolve. The people we meet, the things we see, the challenges we overcome — they’re all chapters in our story, each one shaping who we are.

So, the next time something unexpected comes your way, don’t just shrug it off. Instead, approach it with curiosity. Ask yourself, “What can I learn from this?” Is it a lesson in patience, resilience, or maybe just the importance of good walking shoes?

There’s a quote by Maya Angelou that says, “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” Well, the same can be said for life’s experiences. They might fade from memory, but the lessons learned leave a lasting impact.

So, the next time someone walks into your life, or you stumble into a new situation, remember — it’s not just a random encounter. It’s an opportunity to learn, to grow, and maybe even teach a lesson or two yourself. Keep your eyes open, your heart receptive, and who knows, you might just discover the ultimate answer to your own personal question about life, the universe, and everything.

Life is a journey filled with encounters, each one shaping us in unique ways. By opening ourselves to the lessons around us, we can create a richer, more meaningful story, one chapter at a time.